In this first of two interviews, Keith Barnard, long-time gay-rights activist in Charlotte, North Carolina, recalls his life experiences as a gay man in the American South. He reflects on his upbringing in Rock Hill, South Carolina, and his experience in Charlotte where he moved as a young man. Topics discussed include the impact of Catholicism on his life; his realization of his sexual orientation and his experience coming out in different aspects of his life; misconceived ideas about the LGBTQ community that are commonly held; interest in Greek society and culture; his experiences at gay bars in Charlotte; and his involvement in various nascent Charlotte LGBTQ groups including Dignity (which later became known as Acceptance), and the Queen City Quordinators.